"The training created a safe space for me to truly grieve - and grow."
She'd checked every box. Clinician. Sales leader. Corporate executive. But Melissa Baker's successful healthcare career came with a cost—distance from her family, her faith community, and the life she truly wanted. When caregiving and profound loss interrupted her corporate climb, she faced a harder question: What if success isn't about returning to who we were, but realigning with who we're becoming? Her decision to pursue coach training was born from being tired of letting fear make her decisions.
Melissa Baker had checked every box.
From clinician to sales leader to corporate executive, she’d climbed the ladder in healthcare consulting, working with hospitals across the country to improve patient outcomes. On paper, her career was thriving. But inside, something was quietly breaking.
She couldn’t remember the last time she’d had dinner with her family without her phone buzzing. She barely saw her church community. The life she was building looked nothing like the life she actually wanted to live.
Then everything stopped. When Melissa stepped away from corporate life to become a caregiver – and later walked through the profound loss of her husband during the pandemic – she was forced to confront a painful truth: achievement and alignment are not the same thing.
“I realized that thriving isn’t about returning to who we were,” Melissa reflects now. “It’s about realigning with who we’re becoming.”
The Uncomfortable Decision
During her master’s program in Strategic Communications, Melissa was introduced to coaching. She saw immediately how it could create lasting change in people’s lives. But the programs she found felt incomplete – professionally credible, yes, but missing the faith foundation that shaped how she saw the world.
Then there was the fear.
Coming from the structured, compliance-driven world of healthcare, the openness of coaching felt wildly uncomfortable. The idea of starting her own business? Completely outside her comfort zone. She’d spent her career inside systems with clear regulations and measurable outcomes.
But she’d also just walked through loss. And she was tired of living in fear.
When Melissa discovered Professional Christian Coaching Institute, something clicked. ICF-aligned training. Experienced instructors. And a curriculum that didn’t ask her to separate her faith from her professional development.
“I realized I was tired of living in fear,” she says. “After walking through such a major life transition, I knew it was time to stop letting uncertainty hold me back. Enrolling felt like an act of courage and surrender – a way to honor the chapter I was leaving behind while allowing God to shape the next one.”
The Space to Grieve and Grow
What surprised Melissa most about the training wasn’t just the professionalism or the ICF competencies – though both exceeded her expectations. It was the kindness. The flexibility. The way the program created space for her to be fully human.
She was still processing the loss of her husband when she began the Essentials of Life Coaching program. And instead of pushing through or performing, the coaching training gave her permission to slow down.
“The program created a safe space for me to truly grieve in a healthy way,” Melissa shares. “I began to see that healing wasn’t about ‘moving on’ but about allowing myself to be fully present with the pain while also making space for growth and renewal.”
That experience became her greatest teacher. It deepened her empathy. Strengthened her faith. And showed her firsthand the power of coaching to bring clarity, compassion, and transformation even in the midst of loss.
The skill that changed everything? Learning to truly listen – deeply and without judgment – so she could meet people exactly where they are. Not having all the answers. Just offering presence, understanding, and curiosity.
Leading with Empathy and Clarity
Today, Melissa works as a Leadership and High Performance Medical Coach, guiding leaders and rising leaders through complex transitions. She’s coached more than 50 clients, helping them navigate professional changes, manage stress and energy, and align their actions with what matters most.
One of her clients – a VP transitioning into a CEO role – had a superpower: empathy. But that same strength sometimes kept him from being fully candid about tough business decisions because he didn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.
Through coaching, Melissa helped him reframe how he could lean into his empathy while balancing it with honest communication. Over time, he became more confident addressing difficult decisions thoughtfully, without compromising relationships. He led his team more effectively. Made strategic decisions with clarity. And fostered a culture where transparency and trust coexisted.
That’s the kind of impact Melissa gets to have now – not just solving immediate problems, but creating space for reflection, strategic thinking, and sustainable growth.
And perhaps most importantly? She has flexibility. She works as much or as little as she wants. She spends time with the people she loves most. She does work that’s deeply fulfilling.
“I love what I do,” she says simply. “I’m able to meet people from all over the world and make a difference in their lives through the powerful partnership of coaching.”
What She’d Tell You
If you’re hesitant about coach training, Melissa understands. She’s been there – standing at the edge of the unknown, wondering if she was qualified, if it was the right time, if she could really do this.
Here’s what she’d say to you now:
“Don’t let fear hold you back. Trust that this training will help you grow, face your fears, and step more fully into your potential. The investment you make in yourself now will pay off in ways you can’t yet imagine, both personally and professionally.”
And if you’re sensing God might be calling you to coaching?
“Trust that call and take the step, even if it feels uncertain. Coaching is a way to serve others with compassion, wisdom, and guidance, while also growing in your own clarity, courage, and purpose. Saying ‘yes’ allows you to walk in the gifts, talents and abilities that God has given you and make a meaningful impact in the lives of others.”

Melissa Baker, ACC, CPLC
Leadership and High Performance Medical Coach | Asheville, NC
The Essentials of Coaching – 2023 Cohort
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What If This Is Your Courageous Yes?
Melissa stood exactly where you might be standing right now - feeling the pull but also the fear, unsure if it was the right time. Today, she coaches 50+ leaders while prioritizing what matters most. Her advice? Don't let fear make the decision. Connect with an Academic Advisor for a no-pressure conversation about your calling and next steps.
"If you're sensing God might be calling you to coaching, trust that call and take the step, even if it feels uncertain. Saying 'yes' allows you to walk in the gifts, talents and abilities that God has given you." — Melissa Baker